its (not) time for saying good bye

ok. i almost finish my journey in AIESEC Surabaya. it will be end in 30th June 2011.
i know i'm still not good enough increasing our communication capacity but i know in such a little time (3 months left) we can make it together!

First of all i wanna say congratulations to these great people who makes me so proud of them!
1. Fandi Prathama (my super Team-mate) already elected as Local Commitee President AIESEC Surabaya 11/12!! yeayy..

2. Almira Dea Rezkitha (My dear President AIESEC Surabaya 10/11) already elected as Member Commitee Vice-President Communication AIESEC Indonesia 11/12!!
* i will miss you sist about your deadline terror in BBM and DM as well. it will be unforgettable. please take care at Jakarta!

3. Widy Dinarti (My beloved Mentors, President AIESEC Surabaya 09/10 and MCVP Communication AIESEC Indonesia 10/11) already elected as Member commitee president AIESEC Thailand 11/12!!
*please contact me anytime you want through BBM and email. i will do my best until such as 3 months left before i left AIESEC Surabaya :(

4. Novaisah Makmun (Talent management Manager AIESEC Surabaya 10/11) already elected as Local Commitee Vice-President Communication AIESEC Surabaya 11/12!!

yeah.. i'm so sad combine into happy as well. i will leave my beloved communication department in such as 3 months left. 30th June 2011 will be my last day and in the next 1st July 2011 the throne will come to Ruri as my succesor.. Nova, iam so proud of you! you will continue my journey for make AIESEC Surabaya top of mind youth organization in surabaya! please promise to me that you can make it come true!

there's still many works that i must deal with :
- re-raise Hardrock as media partner
- raise JTV as media Partner
- website AIESEC Surabaya development
- E-Newsletter
- I'm an AIESECer stories and WIKI Campaign

its time for continue my journey
put the stone for this 3 months
do the best for the legacy

i know i can make it!
bismillahh..

#20 Facts About Me

dear my fellow reader, i wanna share about 20 facts about me. ok its just for fun and i hope you know more about me hehe :)

1. First child in my family, I have two lovely sisters such as nabila and soraya. we are three angels in my family

2. I already visited 9 countries (france,UK,Germany,Netherlands,Singapore,Thailand,Malaysia,Brunei and also Indonesia)
*but honestly i only remember 4 of 9 countries because i went to that place when i was baby

3. My mom is acehnese but grown up at bandung-Bogor, my dad is maduranese but grown up at sby, and now they live at Jakarta

4. iam easygoing, not care (cuek), independent, and careless. That's 4 words remains me a lot

5. I was born at Sevres (France) but until now I can't speak french (‾_‾“) *only indonesian and english

6. I love reading comics (about veterinarian,law,geology,credits policy and hospital politics)

7. I'm lacto-vetarian (that means I'm stop eating meat but I'm still eat fish and milk product)

8. I'm lazy with washing my clothes and its effect 15 kilos being laundry

9. I'm sanguinist and cholerist person with ESTJ (Extrovert,Sensing,Thinking,Judging)

10. first time i love a boy when i was second grade in elementary school and i fell in love with a boy who already in 3rd grade senior high school. until now his parents called me "my daughter in-law"

11. In relationships I have 3 officials, 13 unoffical..I'm being rejected by 5 boys and I rejected 8 boys in my life.. LOL

12. I'm addicted with the books! So that's why my favorite place to hang out is bookstore. I can stay around for 3-4 hours

13. I experienced five times get hospitalized in my life. 4 of 5 I got operations in leg,hands,ear and chest

14. I'm Cat and animal Lover! I remember when I was child I'm sleeping with the chicks and kissed my cat

15. i have lost my 5 mobile phone. 5 of them i lost at my campus room (room 5 or 6)

16. i love to eat shrimps, fruit salad, padang's and middle east foods *i think its because my acehnese taste

17. i love to meet new people and get insights about communication things

18. iam last year student, having thesis right now and i will graduate in July 2011

19. iam not shy and backstabber person. i will talk something that i don't like straight ahead and to the point

20. i love japanese culture, classical music, history and design thingy

ok that's all 20 facts about me. i hope all of you know me more closely :)

De-Motivate

Sometimes i feel demotivate to finish my thesis quickly.
i dedicated this articles to every person who always feel demotivated

Based on : www.leadershipfreak.wordpress.com by Dan Rockwell

Young leaders frequently ask me to explain motivation techniques because they work with unmotivated employees or volunteers. We discuss carrots (rewards) and sticks (punishments) as motivational tools. In addition, we discuss the power of progress and advancement opportunities as motivational techniques. However, I’m taking a different path today. Let’s take a stroll down the dark side of motivation by exploring de-motivators.

Actions without why’s de-motivate. Humans need higher purpose. For example, higher purpose motivates parents to work long hours in order to provide for their children. Without purpose long hours are meaningless. Furthermore, employees who don’t understand the greater significance of their job lose passion.

Distrust de-motivates. I’ve heard people complain they were promised an opportunity that never materialized. Or, consider this complaint “The boss took credit for my work.” Unethical leaders quickly let the steam out of motivated employees.

Moving targets de-motivate. Employees working to achieve performance objectives that unexpectedly shift may feel their motivational fire cooling.

Ambiguous or unattainable goals de-motivate. It’s true that setting goals that are just out of reach can fan an employee’s enthusiasm. But if you set the goal too far out of reach they’ll give up.

Favoritism de-motivates. This ugly problem can emerge in any situation. However, employees who are promoted to positions where they manage teams that include personal friends may experience the negative impact of perceived favoritism.

Under appreciation de-motivates. Employees who don’t feel understood and appreciated for their efforts gradually lose fervor.

One-way communication de-motivates. Receiving messages from on high without participation in the process makes people feel they don’t matter. When we don’t matter our performance doesn’t matter either.

It’s too easy to de-motivate people. One powerful motivation technique is eliminating de-motivators.

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What de-motivators can you add to this list? Have you experienced de-motivation?

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Leadership Freak

Dan Rockwell

this thesis is drive me crazy

well i want to share my thesis experience a little bit. every student in last year of university will faced thesis. thesis is like a last project before we are graduate in university.

i'm scared YES!
i get stress YES!

How come?
iam do nothing in almost two weeks. no typing. no idea. still lacks of theory.
YES! that's happen to me!

Go away my Lazyness
Go away my Demotivate
Go away Proscrinators

I have big passion to finish it until the end of April 2011. i want to graduate soon in July 2011.

I WILL!

*Remember my promise to my parents

#2010 memories

ok guys today is the last day on December 2010. so i want to review there are things happened in my life in this year :

#2010 memories :
in January 2010, i have finished my term as Vice-president Communication and Technology in HIMA Prodi S1 Manajemen and i don't regret my journey. i love my team as well thanks to Triana, opie and Faisal who helps me a lot!

#2010 memories :
in february 2010, its honored i'm being Organizing Commitee president for National planning Conference in AIESEC Indonesia. Surabaya will be the host of this cool conference and the delegates from 6 cities in Indonesia. i'm get many things learning in here. i only have 5 teams member and handle 150 delegates in one week. i know many things happen in here. but its make me realize what is the next goal in my AIESEC Experience?

#2010 memories :
in March 2010, i got broke-up with my boyfriend. i know that he has other woman that he likes. ok its really damn hurt at the first. but i believe in the outside of the world there are many man who will loved me just who iam. right now he still be one of my best friends. broke-up doesn't means friendships is over too right? :)

#2010 memories :
in May 2010, i have elected as Vice-President Communication AIESEC Surabaya. wow! thats so amazing experience because many people who apply but i'm the one who elected. i really learned a lot being an Executive Boards not easy as your imagination. you must handle people on ur department, you are being the role model for your members so thats why its not easy everyone watching your action and attitude as leader

#2010 memories :
in July 2010, i got hospitalized because dengue. hahaa and i must bedrest for four days. my mom come from jakarta and taken care of me. its enough just for once i get dengue :)

#2010 memories :
in still same Month, i have to practice my knowledge to the villagers in outside Surabaya. we called it about "KKN" i miss my time for teaching the Elemetary school in Desa Tenggulunan, my friends and the bakso as well

#2010 memories :
in November 2010, yahh its same with my posting before. i got operation for "it" disease and i have the biggest decision for being vegetarian. so here iam now i'm lacto-vetarian

#2010 memories :
in November 2010, my mom working aboard to Algeria for four years. she wishes in 2011 i must be graduate and having master degree as well. so its like promise for me to fulfill her wish :)

#2010 memories :
still in the same month, i'm honored being judges for workshop public relations in my campus. and another judges asking me working for her, unfortunately, i'm still not graduate yet. i get the experience have meeting with head of public relations in surabaya's government wow! thanks to AIESEC Surabaya who give this cool opportunity

#2010 memories :
i chose marketing managemnet as my major. i know its challenge me because there are some rumors that it will hard to get good mark, killer lecturer and hard to graduate but i prove that i get good mark easily, the lecturer is not killer . i'm proud being marketing management student

so there above about my #2010memories haha its like brief description what happen in 2010. i hope i can be better person in every year and can fulfil my wish in 2011.

thanks a lot
adios! :)

i'm lacto-vetarian :)

hey everyone! its a long time i didn't updates my blog haha.. the time is not easy for writing my story.

ok, i want to share about this few month. i really unwell in November 2010. when i felt there is "something" inside my body. so i check up to hospital in internal part section yahh i'm shocked when the doctor diagnosed me "it" disease.

i know its not a big deal disease because i can be healthy again after get operation immediately. but i asking why in myself? what i must supposed to do? must i told my parents? yes, i must told them about "it"

my mom is shocking when she heard me about "it" disease. know she remembered about my grandma who already passed away and got same disease. she told me to do operation in jakarta hospital immediately after i finish middle-exam

ok, i'm already got operation in jakarta's hospital and still in recovery time. i must have medical check up again in this january 2011. well, its not easy i realize its happened because i have bad habit. i love to eat padang food everyday without balancing with vegetables and fruits.

so the biggest decision i have made :

"i will not eat any kinds of meat (chicken,cow or lamb) in the end of my life. i'm still eat fish and egg. so here iam now. i'm lacto-vetarian"

i have already not eat any kinds of meat almost 3 months. i know its for sake my health. i'm not regret to have that decision. but one thing i know, its enough to get operation once on my life. i must respect to my body from now.. its important to balance vegetables and fruits to your body.

"Health is so expensive, i realized this after i spent almost 20 million for being healthy"

how about you? are you already keep your body healthy?

One - OST Friends

menemukan lagu di masa lalu yang sangat mengena di hati saya. lagu ini berasal dari drama jepang yang pernah saya tonton judulnya Friends. *cinta tidak mengenal bangsa, meski cinta tidak dapat diucapkan dengan kata-kata tapi bisa dirasakan oleh orang yang kita cintai :')

When I saw you
for the first time
I knew you were the one
You didn’t say a word to me
but love was in the air

When you held my hand
pulled me into your world
from then all of my life
has changed for you
now I never feel lonely again

‘coz you’re in my life
Love, how can I explain to you
the way I feel inside
when I think of you
I thank you
for everything that you showed me
Don’t you ever forget
that I love you

Love, I know that someday will soon
you’ll be right next to me

Holding me so tight
so I’ll always be yours
although we can’t be
together now
remember I am here for you
when I know you’re there for me
Whenever I long to be with you
I just close my eyes and pretend you’re here
I see you I touch you I feel you
I will
nothing can ever change
what I feel inside

How long must I be far away from you
I don’t know dear but
I know we are one

Thanks to :

http://koreakaja.wordpress.com/friends/